Loyalty in BDSM

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Loyalty in BDSM

I will not  be defining the meaning of the word “loyalty”. Loyalty and submission are words that relatively connected to each other in BDSM. It is similiar to Ying and Yang. A submission without loyalty becomes something just fullfiling the insant orders like a robot, something artificial and you cannot know what they can do when you turn your back.

A submissive is supposed to be loyal anyways but it does not happen instantly, this is also an another process. Disloyalty cannot be approved, yet, for this, some factors should develop for the submissive.These are the things that a dominant should create.

There may be one or multiple reasons to a submissive to be loyal to their Dominant, some of them;

  • They might be scared of their dominant,
  • They might love their dominant,
  • They might respect to their dominant,
  • It can be because of most of those or a few.

How to help your submissive to be loyal:

First of all, the dominant should impose enough trust on their submissive. Then, they should ensure one of these  options or mix all of them.

Along with those duties of a dom, one must not forget;

“Loyalty can be very taught if one has no strength to ensure it.”

 

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