I do not usually use whip, instead of whip, ı prefer riding crop and belt. I use handcuffs from time to time, yet, I do not find them realistic. Rope is better. It should be more spontaneous, we all want to live realistic things. Still, you can use any BDSM material you want.

You can hide the rope in your car, in your house. If someone saw it, they would find it normal. When it is used properly, it can be the most aesthetic material. It also gives more freedom than handcuffs, I am talking about the freedom it gives to the person tying it.
Handcuffs are more amateurish, basic and just a fantasy. Talking about ropes, Shibari, Suspension Shibari… Of course, I also need a Shibari Ring.
More about ropes: you can search “what is Shibari and Suspension Shibari”. I will try to talk about it more often.


The reason why ı do not use whip is same as the many reasons above other than some differences. I like to take the belt off when my submissive does something wrong.
I like that the belt is on my waist and my submissive can see it all the time.
I like the sound it makes.

Riding crop… Yes it is a little harder to hide it when other materials are considered, yet, they are small and slim, and easy to use, also the sound it makes is amazing, the reaction to it is also amazing. So, riding crop is also nice.
And when used properly, they do not leave any permanent wounds. I do not want my submissive to go with bruises.

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Vibrator, dildo, buttplug, etc.; yes, when it is suitable to use.
Candles… Excluding chemical colorant and ones that may leave marks, I do use them a lot. I like pouring it on almost every part of the body. About more about candles, you can check “Candle Waxing in BDSM”.

Clips? Clothespins?

Both of them are nice. It is very easy to wander around with one box of clothespins and it also can be found anywhere. According to circumstances, I tie the clothespin and tie the tip of the rope somewhere else, so their freedom of action is also limited.

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