The Process of Training in BDSM

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BDSM training is the showy name of the process of submissive getting accustomed to obey and the process including sole obedience. If the meetings with sufficient breaks are ensured and the correct methods are followed, generally this process takes 6-12 months. No need giving the impression that it takes decades, yet; it might shorten or take longer depending upon people, expectations and the point which is aimed to reach.

BDSM Training

This process, as elements generally follows in this order.

Meeting a Submissive- You can find the details of this process in related topic.

General Informations about BDSM– In theory, the process that sides narrate what BDSM means for them and what they expect.

BDSM Contract – If it is opted to start a long-termed relationship, putting those promises given by the both of the sides in writing, a positive step for both of the sides.

Goal Setting and Motivation- Setting a goal for the submissive and motivating them for that goal.

Breaking the Resistance- Although it is not something that every submissive has, the submissive might resist about something. In this case, the dominant starts to take actions to break this resistance.

Education of Communication- This step varies in itself and it is is one of the concrete steps about BDSM in the relationship. Details in the related topic.

Body Language- Along with the submissive’s verbal communication, supporting what they say with motions can be expected.

Submissive Positions- In the time which is spent together, details like how to sit, wait, walk are taught.

Painful Practices- Mostly without a reason, it is used in the first steps to detect the submissive’s threshold of pain.

Introduction to Psychological Pressure- In terms of the limits of the contract, starting to take control of the submissive’s life and pressuring it.

Role Play- It can be think of as a break so that not every meeting turns out to be dense and depressing. Organizing more entertaining scenes, also related to the training of the submissive, by adding some sprinkles of Pet Play or DDLG.

BDSM Materials- Starting to use  materials such as mouth gags, blindfold, butt plug, what is suitable for the aim, to reach what is aimed at that moment.

Orgasm Control- The trainings to change submissive’s the turn-on reflexes.

Relevant articles can be multiplied with ease and it should be. Every article has variations in itself and branchs out. After the individuals know each other, most suitable map for the submissive  is determined and the training is started by following that order and the plan.

How to Train a Submissive?

Unfortunately, there is no standart BDSM training because there is individual factor and personality variations. There might be a standart that the dominant wants submissive to reach but the only way the achieve this, is not the same for everyone, it is changeable.

After all these trainings, it is needed to contact with the submissive in three main points properly.

  • Physical,
  • Cognitive
  • Spiritual

If any of these three elements are not controlled, sufficient harmony cannot be obtained.

What happens if the harmony is not obtained? Nothing happens.

You can reach more than 100 articles about BDSM training in the rest of the blog. Since it is impossible to fit all in an article, I talk over about the every matter in a different topic.

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